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Don't Take Love Away

If you know someone who has a girlfriend and if you're planning to flirt with the man, I'm gonna have to ask you to read this post until the end. This will be short.

Whenever I'm outside, in a classroom, or in a cafe, I have heard conversations about a girl crushing on a guy who already have a girlfriend, and what I heard we're pretty bad. Their plans would either be:


  • wait til they break up (adding "walang forever" / "there's no forever")
  • flirt
  • steal the guy herself
Why?

Why do you have to go through all that process on stealing someone's love? Why do you have to be selfish? Do you think about the consequences? Have you ever thought that you will ruin someone's view about love? How can you live thinking that you got what you want, but there is someone out there crying at night thinking why they WEREN'T ENOUGH.

If it sounds as if I've been through that kind of pain... then yes, I have, and I still am going through that pain. My anxieties are off the roof and there are times that I can't breathe because the fear of getting exchanged by someone else lingers in every corner of the room and their shadows laugh at night saying that there is someone better out there and I will never be good enough.

Don't flirt with someone in a relationship.

You can't imagine the damages it can cause. You're taking someone's chance of being loved by a person who would cross oceans for them. You're taking someone's chance of loving someone with all they have. You're taking someone's belief about love. You're taking the true beauty of love. Love is a beautiful thing and you can't just ruin someone's view about it for your own happiness. Don't be so selfish. Please.

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