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Unpredictable

The future's unpredictable, and yet here we are thinking what might and might not happen.

Before my college life, I had imagined myself sitting in the corner alone and watching new faces meeting new friends. I would imagine myself sitting and eating somewhere in the campus alone. I would imagine myself writing in a corner because that's what I mostly do if I'm all by myself.


But no.

There were actually people who wanted to meet me and be their friend. I am...let me say..an alien in their planet and yet they are happy to give me a tour around the place. And that's the moment when I realized something...

Something that some people should understand...

You can see yourself being alone but you can never stand being lonely. The only one making us feel alone is ourselves. Some people wants to get acquainted and you decline them without even noticing it. Get your phone, text somebody, make friends. Get out, eat outside, share your interests, that's all there is to it.

P.S.

Dude, if your girlfriend doesn't want you to make friends with other girls then I'd say "the best of luck to you, my friend." (Well except if other girls are flirting of course)

And this is one conversation that I always hated to hear:

Boy: Hi.
Girl: I have a boyfriend.
Boy: Yeah, cool. I was just gonna ask you about our project.

Like seriously guys, you're closing your doors just because of that?

Yes, you might say that your partner in life might get jealous and angry, well it's not your loss. As long as you're being faithful and loyal and your partner TRUSTS you then I don't see what' wrong with that. (This is just my opinion, I am so sorry)

FAQ:

"It's not that easy"

I know that it is normal for people to get jealous and it is hard if the both of you gets into a fight but honestly, all you need is trust, loyalty, and faithfulness. Nothing more, nothing less. It will workout. Listen to what each other has got to say and don't cut in the middle of their explanation.


(Wow. I think I could really give out advices to people XD)

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