"Hurry up"
"You gotta finish that already"
"Aren't you done yet?"
"What's taking so long?"
Rushing people might be easy for you to do but you being the one being rushed doesn't feel great, does it? Once you rush people,it causes them to stress over the things they are doing, thus, leaving them to mess things up. Imagine following a dotted line with a marker and you gotta be careful but someone wants you to do it faster, will you mess up or not? Or imagine going to the grocery with a list your mom gave you but you only had 15 minutes to do it, will you get the exact groceries needed? I think not.
If we rush them, then it wouldn't be good for them, would it? It will most likely lead them to thinking that they'll just stop on whatever they're doing and go to you even though the work's not finished, or worse, go to you with their work completely messed up. You can't escape this, you're not rushing them to submit before the deadline, but you are rushing them to a complete big mess. (Things that were given enough time for submission is excluded because it could have been done earlier.)
Time is indeed gold, but to be honest, no one can race through it. If you don't want to fuss, then think ahead. Make a schedule. Measure the time needed to do this and that. Alert people at an early time, not when the deadline is after 24- to 48 hours.
We can do things well if we're relaxed, correct? If we are free from deadlines, then there's no stress, and we can actually do more productive things after. We can have finishing touches instead of just saying "Oh well, what the heck. I'll just have to bear with this." Agree or disagree?
Racing time is all that we've been doing all our lives and that's just adding up to our stress. What to do to escape this?
Go back to the 2nd paragraph.
Make a schedule. Without a schedule, then how can you balance all the things that you have to do? Having a schedule will save you a lot of time and not waste your time in thinking what you're supposed to do next.
Make a list. A list of all things needed to be bought or to be done. Keep them in places where you can notice them right away like beside your car keys or stick them on your fridge.
Notify people earlier so you won't have to rush them. It won't be your fault if you have given them enough time to get ready.
AND
Don't rush people or avoid getting rushed. This will affect both of the person involved. It will mess up your schedule and cost you a lot of your time. You can forget important things because of this. Sometimes, when you push your brain to remember more things, then it will cause more damage, thus, giving you more headaches. And the people affected will experience the same thing too.
Make every second count. No rush, no problem. More time, more freedom.
"You gotta finish that already"
"Aren't you done yet?"
"What's taking so long?"
Rushing people might be easy for you to do but you being the one being rushed doesn't feel great, does it? Once you rush people,it causes them to stress over the things they are doing, thus, leaving them to mess things up. Imagine following a dotted line with a marker and you gotta be careful but someone wants you to do it faster, will you mess up or not? Or imagine going to the grocery with a list your mom gave you but you only had 15 minutes to do it, will you get the exact groceries needed? I think not.
If we rush them, then it wouldn't be good for them, would it? It will most likely lead them to thinking that they'll just stop on whatever they're doing and go to you even though the work's not finished, or worse, go to you with their work completely messed up. You can't escape this, you're not rushing them to submit before the deadline, but you are rushing them to a complete big mess. (Things that were given enough time for submission is excluded because it could have been done earlier.)
Time is indeed gold, but to be honest, no one can race through it. If you don't want to fuss, then think ahead. Make a schedule. Measure the time needed to do this and that. Alert people at an early time, not when the deadline is after 24- to 48 hours.
We can do things well if we're relaxed, correct? If we are free from deadlines, then there's no stress, and we can actually do more productive things after. We can have finishing touches instead of just saying "Oh well, what the heck. I'll just have to bear with this." Agree or disagree?
Racing time is all that we've been doing all our lives and that's just adding up to our stress. What to do to escape this?
Go back to the 2nd paragraph.
Make a schedule. Without a schedule, then how can you balance all the things that you have to do? Having a schedule will save you a lot of time and not waste your time in thinking what you're supposed to do next.
Make a list. A list of all things needed to be bought or to be done. Keep them in places where you can notice them right away like beside your car keys or stick them on your fridge.
Notify people earlier so you won't have to rush them. It won't be your fault if you have given them enough time to get ready.
AND
Don't rush people or avoid getting rushed. This will affect both of the person involved. It will mess up your schedule and cost you a lot of your time. You can forget important things because of this. Sometimes, when you push your brain to remember more things, then it will cause more damage, thus, giving you more headaches. And the people affected will experience the same thing too.
Make every second count. No rush, no problem. More time, more freedom.
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