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HELP WANTED: Life didn't hit me that hard

We have all been through our rough times, no one can escape the cruelty of life. And that's a fact.

Thinking that your life is the worst of all? Think again.

I, for one, thought that I have the worst life in the history of human kind. Thinking that my parents are now gone, I can't imagine that I can't see them ever while I'm still here on earth, alive.

But then I thought, I am not the only one who doesn't have parents...

Every time I watch TV, or walk along the streets, I see homeless children who depends on each other and strive to live.

Life didn't hit me that hard.

In classrooms, I hear everyone laughing and teasing the fattest one in class but little do they know that that fat girl they always tease cries every time she goes home and skips all of her meals just to get thinner. She's living because of water and her parents are worried. She's unhealthy not just physically, but emotionally, too.

My life didn't hit me that hard.

Some girls who got pregnant early are being called sluts. What if she got raped? Can you imagine that terrible experience of hers? No.

My life didn't hit me that hard.

I heard about stories of lovers who had to break up because society didn't want to see them together. Imagine how hard it is to be separated from the one you love just to please the society.

My life didn't hit me that hard.

I also saw how cruel people are towards gays and lesbians. Don't they know that they are people, too? Don't they know that they should be respected?

My life didn't hit me that hard.

I heard of a kid who got hurt by his mother's boyfriend just because he didn't hear him because he had his earphones on. And that guy doesn't have any rights to hurt that kid at all.


My life didn't hit me that hard.

Then I know this one guy whose mother blames everything to him. She slaps and punches him for no reason. She wasn't there for her child. She wasn't there for his child's graduation. She wasn't there to witness how cruel her child's life was because of her.

My life didn't hit me that hard.

And the most heartbreaking one of all...

How do you feel about seeing an old man eating alone at a restaurant?

I wish no one's life would hit that hard.



What should you do then?

Pray.

Pray and believe that everything's gonna be alright. Believe that you can get through it. This is life. There will always be something blocking you from your goals and you just gotta play with it. Make everything you do with your life counts because every second of it is worth it. Take every opportunity as a challenge because there's nothing to lose.

 I need help. You need help. Everyone needs help. We all just need a helping hand. And sometimes, that helping hand is ours, too.

Remember,


Saying "I can't believe I did that"

is better than

"I wish I did that."

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